The Willow type tends to blame other people or things for their situation, failing to acknowledge any responsibility they may have themselves. They may get a speeding fine, for instance, and resent the police who booked them rather than accepting they had brought this on by speeding. Often this type of person always blames others for their misfortunes, troubles, etc.
I'm off the belief that nothing can happen to you without your permission on some level, and though situations can get out of control, we all have some responsibility in what is happening in our life. Willow helps bring things into perspective.